I have a lot of “nice” clients. And that’s their problem. Hear me out!

As I prepared for my July conversation on Let’s Talk EMDR with EMDRIA (which you can hear in my previous blog post), I started to feel clearer on my clinical stance around supporting all of my clients to differentiate between the potential destructive passivity of being nice versus what it looks like to be kind (to themselves and others). Learning the difference may be one of the most important steps toward real healing.